What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are entirely present. Do not believe about yesterday or tomorrow. Don't take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. An extremely conscious touch from the heart. Get likewise very knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the question. Whatever happens in the moment, in full awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or falling asleep is likewise not planned (still, when that's what you need, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the method or the desired sequence of rubbing that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a very unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a long period of time, of course, but since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver constantly need to be ensured. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear limits in advance
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also necessary (read the article on protecting borders. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a proper intake, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about mental limits, and likewise take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also totally ok (however hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensuous, but you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, constantly with regard for (mutual) limits. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural happy state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), but usually, that is a procedure in time. Tantra knows various strategies to use on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function besides self-realization: restoring the natural (happy) state of being.
Usually leading to a wonderful physical, mental wellness
Tantra helps you to become more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring therefore much more. Really, you "discover" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what takes place often: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is completely permitted! A tantra massage is generally nice, sometimes delicious. We, therefore, welcome you to totally enjoy getting ánd giving a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many types of massage. Obviously, all massages have specific practices and strategies in common. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Not Treatment
Well because you are really super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however treatment is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply great conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Don't just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) minutes.
Demand free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "requirements", keep away from your own problems and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, nothing is needed! Again, do not attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are disappointed when someone falls asleep. You may not be awaiting an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no objective. No designated outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear boundaries in advance. Our masseuses are primarily really open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, of course. Understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to restored freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and offer combination moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing result. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it is like to like yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might become not only cheerful however even euphoric. A happy state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* website A caring touch.
* Complete of attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a terrific physical, psychological well-being (of both).